For all of you who think you know your children when they are really young, there will always be surprises. There will be slow changes throughout their growing up years that you may not even detect as they learn, experience, and grow. I’d suppose most of us worry and care greatly about what happens to them, and work hard to shape their experiences to be positive. We want what’s best for our little loved ones. And all the while we are enjoying their lively personalities and watching them grow and experience, we really have no idea how they will be as grown ups, until it happens.
And often, it’s surprising. And amazing. It’s a granddaughter I’m thinking about right now. She’s here, at her mom’s house, for just a few short days this Christmas season, and it’s been five years, at least, since I’ve seen her or had a chance for a grandmotherly hug. Hugs are still great, but wow, the rest of her. Who knew? When she was a sweet little darling, there was no clue to her future. Well, except her interest in odd food choices for a small child. Usually, they want mac-cheese, simple stuff, nothing complex. But she would try almost anything.
My little ballerina, my buddy, has grown to be a complex, beautiful person, with talent and a calm demeanor in the most chaotic situations. So sweet, too. In the midst of hustle and bustle of a Christmas at her moms crowded house, she stands in the kitchen, in the middle of confusion and chaos, and creates and creates and creates. Wonderful goodies for us all to eat! Who would have thought!
On Christmas eve, she made creme puffs so good, and so many, for a lot of people, and we all enjoyed them so much. Who makes creme puffs at home anymore? Only a true artist in the kitchen. Then, on Christmas day, again standing in the chaotic kitchen, she produces a superb soup, and helps with jalapeno poppers and finishes our repast with creme brulee served in fresh lemon rinds….so unique and tasty! And, again, enough to go around, when the house was crowded with family and friends. And instead of panic or rushing, she’s calm, collected and enjoying it! Amazing Grace!
I’m so glad they came down from the cold of Minnesota to spend time with us, even if only for a few days. Today, she goes back north, and continues her studies and cooking in restaurant kitchen. Somehow, I expect that’s an experience that has taught her that calm, that resolve, and nurtured that amazing talent.
Like I said, you never know.